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  • Kurzgesagt – In a Nutshell
    Kurzgesagt – In a Nutshell  Πριν 13 ώρες +2875

    We designed a poster on this topic as well. You can find it here: standard.tv/collections/in-a-nutshell/products/in-a-nutshell-loneliness-poster

    • Fringe Wizard
      Fringe Wizard Πριν 5 ώρες

      >reach out and get professional help
      lmao psychiatry is not a legit science and those frauds can't help anyone

    • Fringe Wizard
      Fringe Wizard Πριν 5 ώρες

      Your video assumes people have a wife and children btw. Most of us don't have a wife and children, look at the birthrates. I know someone could be lonely in a marriage but it's highly improbable.

    • Ka Bar
      Ka Bar Πριν 5 ώρες

      vost French pls ;(

    • Kurotama
      Kurotama Πριν 5 ώρες

      This video is beautiful.

      Thank you. 😊

    • powdered meat
      powdered meat Πριν 5 ώρες

      I gotta ask... what if there is more than just that going on? I got a "step" father who didnt marry my mother cause hes "waiting"for 5 damn years but is her fiance. See I'm lonely since my mother moved away from my true father and I was emotional so kids didn't like me... I've looked over my life and this is still going on... I go to a school learn how to act from it, move again redo everything half year later do it again then when the years done, it happens again... I try to make conversation with people but they just dont listen. I am lonely but it falls from my past... what would I do then? I should tell my mother to leave him, and a major stress would go away but then we would just be like before...

  • A Shibe
    A Shibe Πριν 4 ώρες

    Gemeinschaft>>> Gesellschaft

  • Galloe
    Galloe Πριν 4 ώρες

    I've become complacent if I'm to be honest. My form of brain damage makes it really complected to hold a conversation. Funny thing really, it's not that I don't know how to talk, only that it's VERY hard to make words most of the time and even when they are coming out correctly I've nearly lost the ability to control the tone of my voice. Been 10 years now, and nothing ever changes because even the people I've known all along don't want to deal with me... I'm still the same me but I suppose at times I talk too loud or so low that it's hard to hear me and even at that I start to slur or spend too much time trying to bring words to my tongue. Still, I don't pick up on it until the person I'm talking to has had enough of me and just kind of walks away.
    After that, they (Friends and family, well not so much friends because I lost all of them years ago) start to think that I'm kind of stupid and that frustrates me tons, I mean it has been 10 years and every year it only gets a little worse... I've built all of their computers and repaired most of our household plumbing problems but now I'm just being overlooked. I ask if they need help or if I CAN and for the last 3 years my offers have been rejected. No, it's okay, (Insert a friend's name here) is coming over and he can do it. Unless it's something that they don't want to make their friends do... Like, let's say clean the grease trap in the septic tank because that's a me job.
    It sucks too because I spent most of my youth learning how to do the things I'm overlooked for. I'm not dumb though, I swear and I've never broken the things I mean to fix... From 22 to 32 and in the middle nothing has happened, the brain thing makes it to where I cannot drive and the place I live has no bus lines and even if I HAD a bus line the fare is now $5.00. See, this is all crying on and I know it but that's just how it is and I figured that a video like this one would be an okay place to share it all. I'm not trying to make anyone feel anything at all, I'm just speaking my life with my fingers but this whole thing is TL;DR I do, however, hope that someone reads this or I will just tell myself someone did read it and that will be good enough for me. A decade of being lonely starts to make you feel numb, I guess.
    It's not all bad though, my dog has been alive for 10 years in July and she is a Pomeranian so at the very least if she stays healthy I will have a friend until I'm nearly or 40, or maybe she will live to be 20 and I will have here until I'm 42! Cool really, she adopted me (Complicated, she was NEVER my dog but she made me her human.) when I was 22, and she could be my dog from the age of 22 to 40! I love her a whole lot too because she never gets upset when I have trouble speaking, or walking or don't want to get out of bed because my legs are being buttholes and don't want to keep me stable.
    Moral of the story is: Dogs make the best of friends! Hannah took me from the end of adult childhood and may be there for when I become middle age! Dogs save lives.

  • Gabrie facu
    Gabrie facu Πριν 4 ώρες

    This channel needs more subscribers. At least, 25 or 30 million. Great work!!

  • artki 13000
    artki 13000 Πριν 4 ώρες

    BITCH I GOT MYSELF TO LOVE 🥳💕😄

  • Kerri Price
    Kerri Price Πριν 4 ώρες

    Welp i guess i have chronic loneliness. I guess its time to better myself and reach out. I hope others can do this too. Time to start a journey of connection. Good luck guys

  • Lithy Veronica
    Lithy Veronica Πριν 4 ώρες +1

    How to solve Loneliness on a budget:
    1. Go to a bar.
    2. Order 5 pints of lager.
    PROFIT!

  • ChocolateCat 60
    ChocolateCat 60 Πριν 4 ώρες

    I’m lonely

  • Santiago Díaz
    Santiago Díaz Πριν 4 ώρες

    I don't know if the internet is listening to me, I seriously don't care at this point. Kurzgesagt this is exactly what I needed right now. I'm so glad I bought your 12,019 calendar.

  • daniel
    daniel Πριν 4 ώρες

    1:30
    Because I'm hungry.
    No, you're lonely. I can see it in your eyes.

  • Jett wright
    Jett wright Πριν 4 ώρες

    I like being alone, I only feel lonely when no one understands me through communication.

  • Phillip Parr
    Phillip Parr Πριν 4 ώρες

    Hello :)

  • Emel Gül
    Emel Gül Πριν 4 ώρες

    Im watching while I avoid my family

  • Joseph Blattert
    Joseph Blattert Πριν 4 ώρες

    Thank you, I really needed this

  • Dustin
    Dustin Πριν 4 ώρες

    It seems that a lot of problems we experience are down to us evolving our societies faster than our bodies and minds can evolve to keep up. Fundamentally we're the same as cavemen, just with thousands of years of accumulated knowledge which we've used to shape the world around us. Makes you wonder what humanity would be like if we could evolve as fast as bacteria and viruses do to cope with changes in their environment.

  • New Memer
    New Memer Πριν 4 ώρες

    This is so relateable. I've been contentrating on my social skills so much, how people react, how I do

  • Vector Guy
    Vector Guy Πριν 4 ώρες

    I am also in a process of getting rid of friends which wish me bad things, they are pretty easy to spot once you look closer.
    I feel lonely when those fake or impuslive friends insist on to go out with them, but i refuse most of the times now.
    I have a few buddies with whom I hang out and a girlfriend. They are enough, but it is hard to ignore those bad ones, the world is full of them, so its normal to become alert at some point in life, in a defensive position.
    Better feeling lonely then bored with the wrong people around you, or even annoyed and furious. And when you ll find that one friend or friends, you ll appreciate them so much.

  • Wilson
    Wilson Πριν 4 ώρες +1

    Where are the BIRDS?!

  • Warped
    Warped Πριν 4 ώρες

    If you feel suicidal...just hang in there.

    • T T
      T T Πριν 4 ώρες

      I do

  • Vian Jansen van Rensburg
    Vian Jansen van Rensburg Πριν 4 ώρες

    i needed that

  • MetalJesus 19
    MetalJesus 19 Πριν 4 ώρες

    Very well.

  • JaidenSD
    JaidenSD Πριν 4 ώρες

    I really love how the animation and style just keeps improving and improving, and every topic that ends covered in a video of this channel is absolutely entertaining and interesting. I really love Kurzgesagt and these videos.

  • dancewithme !
    dancewithme ! Πριν 4 ώρες +2

    I've been cutting myself

  • JuanCarlosBeltran Alkuino
    JuanCarlosBeltran Alkuino Πριν 4 ώρες

    yo I'm 14 years old and I miss the time we I to get out and play with my friends T--T

  • big e Stephens
    big e Stephens Πριν 4 ώρες

    Almost 8 million subscribers

  • Pinochet
    Pinochet Πριν 4 ώρες +1

    Madlads upload a video about loneliness days after Valentines Day, damn

  • Gabe cruz
    Gabe cruz Πριν 4 ώρες

    I'm going to die to loneliness. Lost cause with no hope.

  • MrRandomTV1000
    MrRandomTV1000 Πριν 4 ώρες

    Speak for yourself. I enjoy being by myself and it actually gives me pain and stress when being social.

  • Chapter Master Avarice
    Chapter Master Avarice Πριν 4 ώρες

    Hmm... I think we've touched on where the idea of "microagressions" originated.
    Misinterpretations, and perceived hostility.

  • Richard Didrikson
    Richard Didrikson Πριν 4 ώρες +1

    Weekly dose of depression.

  • Destiel! At the disco
    Destiel! At the disco Πριν 4 ώρες

    This video actually really helped, thanks for making it

  • Zorn27
    Zorn27 Πριν 4 ώρες

    Wished someone a happy birthday 🎂 😁

  • That Mexican Boi
    That Mexican Boi Πριν 4 ώρες

    Curious, I felt lonely and sad for people who didn't care about me even when I'm possibly the most realistic person I know.
    The brain is weird huh

  • Aniq Iman
    Aniq Iman Πριν 4 ώρες

    but....how about lone wolf??

  • And The Salt Spreads
    And The Salt Spreads Πριν 4 ώρες

    just here for the depressed emo comments.

  • Ginger McFly
    Ginger McFly Πριν 4 ώρες

    I’ve got my cigarettes to keep me company

  • Alex Hutchins
    Alex Hutchins Πριν 4 ώρες

    I got brain surgery to deal with my loneliness.

  • Enya Serna Rodriguez
    Enya Serna Rodriguez Πριν 4 ώρες

    This video is about to change my life. Thank you Kurzgesagt.

  • The Discrete
    The Discrete Πριν 5 ώρες

    Thanks!!

  • Publik Channel
    Publik Channel Πριν 5 ώρες

    That professional help - would that be a therapist, psychologist, or something else?

  • Ben
    Ben Πριν 5 ώρες

    This video just encapsulated the way I am.
    Judging by what was said, I'm deep into the chronic end of loneliness.

  • Khaled Houssary
    Khaled Houssary Πριν 5 ώρες

    1:24 Illuminati

  • Rampator -
    Rampator - Πριν 5 ώρες

    I was feeling pretty good, until I watched this video. These guys have a talent for consistently creating content that make you feel depressed and hopeless.

  • a lonely spoon
    a lonely spoon Πριν 5 ώρες

    :

  • JustGame
    JustGame Πριν 5 ώρες

    I felt this way a few years back, I thought all of my friends were out to get to me, I became super anxious whenever they called and usually just ignored it. I did whatever I could to avoid going out. Thankfully I’m passed it and love going out with my friends, sometimes abit too much when I have university deadlines. Funnily enough it was a GRclip channel called ThatWasEpic that helped me, he’s this guy that goes up to random people and says funny/embarrassing stuff. Made me realise no matter how awkward a situation may seem nothing bad happens in fact it’s actually quite therapeutic to laugh at yourself and reflect on social situations positively no matter how stupid you may have felt

  • Eero Huhtamo
    Eero Huhtamo Πριν 5 ώρες

    Maybe this is a stretch but I think morality has it's roots in avoiding loneliness. Back in the days it meant death if you were kicked out of a community (stated in the video). There for you had to figure out how other people expect you to behave AKA to know what is ok to do and what is not AKA to know what is wrong and what is right AKA have a moral.

  • PotatoKD News
    PotatoKD News Πριν 5 ώρες

    Finnally I understand now! I know why I feel mistreated all the time!

  • Potatis 1337
    Potatis 1337 Πριν 5 ώρες

    This channel and Captain Disillusion, are the 2 best channels on GRclip. Period.

  • hawaiisunfun
    hawaiisunfun Πριν 5 ώρες

    Nothing is forever, and people can only be in a person's life for only so long (as they can also be in one place for one period of time for only so long). So it's about creating the best memories in a moment and holding onto them as long as possible, while simultaneously feeling like one can reconnect to those people and experiences that prevents loneliness (at least for me).

    • hawaiisunfun
      hawaiisunfun Πριν 4 ώρες

      It would be nice to create virtual people and experiences, to virtually create elongate the everlasting feeling. The issue is that even that has shortcomings, because people live in the real world and cannot experience the virtual world forever (even a virtual world has bearings in reality, as it's limited by time) if they try to connect to it with their human bodies. People still can only be in one place at one time and don't live forever. So it's really difficult to counteract loneliness no matter what, as long as reality exists in a person's life. Just making the most of what we have is the best we can do.

  • Nick Martin
    Nick Martin Πριν 5 ώρες

    Thank you...

  • Angie Is the best of the best
    Angie Is the best of the best Πριν 5 ώρες

    Loneliness isn't deadly, that's bull crap. You scientist are a joke.

  • Lbp boricua
    Lbp boricua Πριν 5 ώρες

    Sup I am at the point past loneliness and depressed, wyd

  • Shnarfbird
    Shnarfbird Πριν 5 ώρες +1

    I keep trying. I reach out all the time. Nobody cares.

  • GucciPoochie
    GucciPoochie Πριν 5 ώρες

    This hits close to home.

  • AO1337
    AO1337 Πριν 5 ώρες

    Of course they upload at 0:58 am.

  • Captain Scott
    Captain Scott Πριν 5 ώρες

    Video: Loneliness kills
    Me: Crap

  • ꦄꦫꦸꦤ
    ꦄꦫꦸꦤ Πριν 5 ώρες

    Haha! , its funny how i watching this while knowing i already beyond point of no return

  • Federico Dassi
    Federico Dassi Πριν 5 ώρες

    This is one of the few things i found that could help, thank you

  • Dutch Plan Der linde
    Dutch Plan Der linde Πριν 5 ώρες

    I still wonder why my parents say I’m lonely when I tell them I prefer being alone and I hate being around others

  • Oxi Clean
    Oxi Clean Πριν 5 ώρες +1

    I feel lonely too... 😔

  • salakoay_ola
    salakoay_ola Πριν 5 ώρες

    Thank you Kurzgesagt 💙

  • Pure Rust
    Pure Rust Πριν 5 ώρες

    loneliness is more harzardous than obesity and smoking. Good, can't wait to die soon. Life is pointless shit anyways.

  • Das kut
    Das kut Πριν 5 ώρες

    This video made me feel so lonely because it's a pretty accurate description of me but i didnt even notice it......

  • Aidan Allen
    Aidan Allen Πριν 5 ώρες

    Thank you Kurzgesagt, I struggle with having close friends and knowing why that makes me sad helps me process that much easier.

  • raja xd
    raja xd Πριν 5 ώρες

    Uploaded just after Valentine’s day.
    Right in the feels

  • Paul Krishnamurthy
    Paul Krishnamurthy Πριν 5 ώρες

    This channel is honestly one of the best ones on youtube. Such great quality content in every video!

  • Andrea Bassi
    Andrea Bassi Πριν 5 ώρες

    It is incredible to realize that this is exactly what I experience without knowing it with such accuracy. This video is wonderful, hope it gets the visibility it deserves and people deserve.

  • anatoli-san
    anatoli-san Πριν 5 ώρες +1

    It's all a conspiracy

  • moist lint ball the 3rd
    moist lint ball the 3rd Πριν 5 ώρες

    Saw this video and wanted to make a witty comment but this hit home hard.

  • Gonçalo Ramalho
    Gonçalo Ramalho Πριν 5 ώρες

    Thank you! Not only an individual thank you, but thank you for showing this to whom may see it! I hope it will help people out there!

  • Dezső Kaffantó
    Dezső Kaffantó Πριν 5 ώρες

    Okay. You should be a state (EU?) founded channel which creates content 0-24.

  • Kaden D
    Kaden D Πριν 5 ώρες

    This explains a lot. Great video as all ways!!

  • Eo DabDab
    Eo DabDab Πριν 5 ώρες

    I can't relate to this even a bit, I really like being alone...

  • Emme Emme
    Emme Emme Πριν 5 ώρες

    Really really good video, i think it'll really help some people.
    Really good job!

  • Bryce020
    Bryce020 Πριν 5 ώρες

    Yes! Finally, an episode that relates with so many people (especially the youth) around the world!

  • Karellen
    Karellen Πριν 5 ώρες +1

    This video is cool however modern society is soo pretending that makes me hate people.

  • Udwun
    Udwun Πριν 5 ώρες

    honestly this video helped me to understand how to escape lonliness. thank you guys so much

  • Ossy Koi
    Ossy Koi Πριν 5 ώρες

    Thank you for making this video. I have always thought that these feelings of mine have simply been a consequence of my depression. After hearing about the symptoms of loneliness, it kind of brightened my day a little. I actually realised at some point that I've been categorising neutral-happy emotions as negative. There were moments where it did improve, but it seemed to be a rather persistent event. I felt that this video was exactly what I am like. I'm very happy to have seen this video.

  • SlavReviews
    SlavReviews Πριν 5 ώρες

    Don't forget bacteria never leave your side ✊

  • Aditya Chebiyyam
    Aditya Chebiyyam Πριν 5 ώρες

    Irony will die a lonely death when people watch this video when they're alone!

  • William Kallemeyn
    William Kallemeyn Πριν 5 ώρες

    The stupid thing is i thought i was the only one who felt like this...

  • ꦄꦫꦸꦤ
    ꦄꦫꦸꦤ Πριν 5 ώρες

    Ah...
    Shit!
    I'm Going to Die!

  • Genetics determine your
    Genetics determine your Πριν 5 ώρες

    headstarts , favorable situations and genetics .

  • Caleb Kruse
    Caleb Kruse Πριν 5 ώρες

    One of the best things I have heard about negative thoughts is to pick out three things youre thankful for each day. Doesn’t take long, but it can help rewire the way you think in order to be happier and more optimistic.

  • Shyam Padmanabhan
    Shyam Padmanabhan Πριν 5 ώρες

    A lot of people claim to understand this concept, but their actions clearly show that they don't. One thing you can do to help people feel less lonely, or even help yourself, is call your friends over the phone instead of just texting them back and forth.

  • Eddie Roche
    Eddie Roche Πριν 5 ώρες

    That's cool, but there's a severe lack of birds.

  • Vicente Capito
    Vicente Capito Πριν 5 ώρες

    I wish I could ask, why to dislike this video?

  • Josh Lee
    Josh Lee Πριν 5 ώρες

    Great video, good work. Education and a bit of good advice is what I watch this chanel for

  • Rob Vel
    Rob Vel Πριν 5 ώρες

    Thank you for making this.

  • Matt Eden
    Matt Eden Πριν 5 ώρες

    As someone who struggles with this thank you for bringing this to light and making it a topic of conversation.

  • I'm a huge faggot
    I'm a huge faggot Πριν 5 ώρες

    haha i hate myself

  • hawaiisunfun
    hawaiisunfun Πριν 5 ώρες

    When people say the wrong thing to me (like unconsciously opening up a trauma that I closed in my head, because they don't know me), it makes me want to not be around them. After a while of avoiding many people, there are fewer people around me and ones I want to talk to. Then I get lonely. The more open social experiences are (when people want to talk to/connect with me deeply and I want to be around them and do the same), the less lonely I get. Thank you Kurzgesagt for having this video. It came at the right time where I got lonely after this situation happened and the person left my life for future pursuits (which I hoped for, as I wanted what was best for them, as they made me feel less lonely, but I didn't want to talk to them but instead wanted them to move forward in their life, which they did). This video helps

  • General Otmin
    General Otmin Πριν 5 ώρες

    My life: Lonely 24/7

  • Joshua Canales
    Joshua Canales Πριν 5 ώρες

    Can you do a video about anxiety?

  • Sparsh Varshney
    Sparsh Varshney Πριν 5 ώρες

    Amazing. This one was so helpful. Make more like these ❤️

  • Arash snai
    Arash snai Πριν 5 ώρες

    I feel lonelier after watching this video

  • Harshit Khandelwal
    Harshit Khandelwal Πριν 5 ώρες

    Loneliness is sometimes better when you do good with other people but other people cheat you and insult you.

  • Arees Valles
    Arees Valles Πριν 5 ώρες

    Ah every mental issue fix starts with admit you have a problem.

  • Lea Schmitt
    Lea Schmitt Πριν 5 ώρες

    I cried

  • fredan
    fredan Πριν 5 ώρες

    I'm no expert I'm just some random twelve-year-old, but just so you know there's always somebody out there who loves you. You just need to search for them and be open about who you are. Don't go around hiding your feelings, be open. If somebody is mean to you be nice to them because they probably have it hard at home. If you are nice to them after a while they'll be nice back. As said I'm no expert but at least i hope this will make you feel a little bit better.