james charles RESPONDS to tati

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  • Shister Shook
    Shister Shook Πριν ημέρα +1

    This drama is just annoying 🙄

  • Teddy
    Teddy Πριν 3 ημέρες

    Yea the only video I disliked of it's was the James paparazzi one, u were quick to hate on him

  • nOt ur hOe
    nOt ur hOe Πριν 6 ημέρες

    Sebastian is possibly the only drama channel who isn’t biased. The only one I trust.

    UKIISSFan Πριν 6 ημέρες

    So at the end who got canceled and why?

  • SolarVybz Xd
    SolarVybz Xd Πριν 8 ημέρες

    Gay kid

  • shishstar kem officiallss
    shishstar kem officiallss Πριν 14 ημέρες

    Love how all of his social media options are Dutch and I can understand since I'm Dutchhh

  • newt scamander
    newt scamander Πριν 15 ημέρες

    Tati: bye sister
    James: *pulls out uno reverse card*

  • Lara Vergara
    Lara Vergara Πριν 15 ημέρες

    Y’all were sticking to Tati’s ass SO much. We all know James isn’t a saint but y’all just sticked with her for being an old irrelevant youtuber. She knows that, and she did ALL this shit just to get some views and subs. Not to even count she’s like 40 and she gets petty over VITAMINS sis, you can get that shit on walmart you didn’t invent shit

  • Earth Astra
    Earth Astra Πριν 15 ημέρες

    I hope you apologize because your channel was an ENORMOUS fuel to this forest fire. You tried to look pragmatic but you know darn well that you weren't until the other side of the story came out in full.

  • Sljink
    Sljink Πριν 18 ημέρες +1

    My only question is why didn’t James have the foresight to bring security??? Obviously he knows how large his subscriber base is.

  • internet hobo
    internet hobo Πριν 19 ημέρες +1

    Before james' uno reverse card: *James is an evil predator!*
    After james' reverse card: *uhmm we're on nObOdy'S sIdE rEmEmbER*

  • Ram S
    Ram S Πριν 20 ημέρες

    I have met A LOT OF GAYS who told me “YOU’RE GAY! YOU JUST DON’T KNOW IT YET.”
    They also lashed out when I politely rejected invites to hang out further or to partake in hypocritical gossip sessions. Sometimes passively and other times aggressively.
    This is a BEHAVIOUR that is RAMPANT. Guys and GIRLS TOO have this idea that they have a GAYDAR. NOBODY DOES. You’re not psychic. You’re just judging someone based on your PRECONCEIVED notions. YOU ARE WRONG!
    We all do it. But the notion of GAYDAR is simply a concept to hide behind when you don’t know how to deal with your own FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS regarding the fact that some gays are different to you.
    YES I AM GAY. MY OWN WAY. And my sexuality is not something you can preempt or own with a tasteless “YOU’RE DEFINITELY GAY. YOU JUST DON’T KNOW IT YET.” It’s for me to explore and divulge in my own time and manner.

  • Eli Raine
    Eli Raine Πριν 20 ημέρες

    so is tati lying now or

  • Rimiki Laloo
    Rimiki Laloo Πριν 20 ημέρες


  • nOt ur hOe
    nOt ur hOe Πριν 23 ημέρες

    _And I-oop_

  • Lola Lilac
    Lola Lilac Πριν 24 ημέρες

    Bretmon rock sipping in hawaii drama free

  • ぽらぽら
    ぽらぽら Πριν 25 ημέρες +1

    And I oop-

  • Jessica Carter
    Jessica Carter Πριν 26 ημέρες +1

    Ok so it's the 25th and I just got the notification that you posted

  • Hannah M.
    Hannah M. Πριν 26 ημέρες

    I love how all the drama channels were ready to crucify James and now they are all “I’m on no ones side”

  • Pure Salt
    Pure Salt Πριν 27 ημέρες +2

    Can we stop talking about James and Tati for a minute and open our fucking eyes at how Jeffree BASHED him, and bandwagoned with no evidence, then backed away and apologized when James came out with his claim? I fucking hate that bitch, he thinks he isn’t controversial

  • M M
    M M Πριν 27 ημέρες


  • Otaku4life dubbysubby
    Otaku4life dubbysubby Πριν 27 ημέρες

    6:18 that's a lie
    He was payed

  • Glowgang Queen Aniyah
    Glowgang Queen Aniyah Πριν 27 ημέρες +1

    Tbh the person who started the drama is Tati

  • Michelle Brover
    Michelle Brover Πριν 28 ημέρες

    'kind, creative and caring' bitch u trying to alliterate

  • Michelle Brover
    Michelle Brover Πριν 28 ημέρες

    i mean. sister squad broke up for a reason, james bullied a young child, and isn't he like transphobic? tati is actually speaking with emotion and james is reading a script. like, yall gonna forget his apology video..

  • Miriam Mendez Martinez57
    Miriam Mendez Martinez57 Πριν 28 ημέρες

    Lmao it’s so funny to me that James Charles “recipes” don’t add up.just saying...

  • Rowan the Dobermann
    Rowan the Dobermann Πριν 28 ημέρες +1

    Tati knew that I'm famous is an inside joke, she also said it in a text message and so do a lot of other celebrities (James showed the screenshot) so she lied about that to.

    MRS HARRY STYLES Πριν 28 ημέρες +2

    no matter how hurt tati was she outright lied with accusations of being a sexual predator and that is unjustifiable. she is supposed to be the mature one of the two of them

  • hs m
    hs m Πριν 28 ημέρες +3

    This is like tea spill. Also on Jeffrees payroll. Lol

  • Jessica Lyngkhoi
    Jessica Lyngkhoi Πριν 29 ημέρες +1

    remember when you we're attacking him and you were on Tati side now suddenly when James came with receipts you're on no one's side?

  • MyOtaku Life
    MyOtaku Life Πριν 29 ημέρες +2

    Honestly James just cancelled all you drama channels, who basically WAS ON TATI'S SIDE just the other day, ugh hypocrites! 🙄🙄🙄

  • Obliviate
    Obliviate Πριν 29 ημέρες +1

    At this point I unsubbed all of them 👌

  • Lili
    Lili Πριν 29 ημέρες

    Holy shitties... if my friend did that just cuz I chose a fun weekend over her vitamins, I will sue her for all her worth. People are allowed to have free will, they’re not your slaves Tati!

  • Fero Ahmed
    Fero Ahmed Πριν 29 ημέρες +1

    I am just so disappointed that james is uncancelled(sorry sis i really can't stand him)...but he pulled the same illogically time lined (maybe orchestrated) sbh texts and..he still dmed a minor...so..he's still cancelled to me!!..and also if all these stuff are as untrue as james NOW claims..why didn't he make the professional video first??why did he make a "teary" apology first?..why would he apologise for something that is not true?he would have immediatly clapped back?...idk seems..tacky?

    • hs m
      hs m Πριν 22 ημέρες

      @Fero Ahmed huwat?!??!?! Tati westsnake is heartbroken?? Over what? 20 million dollars? I would LOVE TO CRY on my 20M bed!

    • Fero Ahmed
      Fero Ahmed Πριν 28 ημέρες

      i am not...i'm not even a fan really of any of them..james is just way too problematic and dramatic and narcissitic that he was just begging to be cancelled for me..jeffree had tweets of the same sort a few years ago so i don't really think he is the one to talk..and tati was so heartbroken that she could have been biased about james but he still did those stuff

      NEO GOT MY BACK Πριν 28 ημέρες +1

      Okay what do you think about miss tati LYING about almost everything?? And what do you think about Jeffree star's DMS to James Charles?? Accusing him for being a predator and a molester without any evidence and almost causing the poor kid to kill himself?? Please explain !

    • hs m
      hs m Πριν 28 ημέρες +1

      Are you jeffree star? Or maybe tati westsnake?

  • Angela Lian
    Angela Lian Πριν 29 ημέρες +1

    ugh the first comment you showed... of COURSE james' video was planned out! he had to have the receipts in order to prove himself innocent! if he didn't plan out the video, he would have been a mess during it. the suicide hotline is HELPFUL to many and i doubt it was just for sympathy. when someone says they're going through a hard time mentally, you cannot say they are lying because they want sympathy because YOU. DO. NOT. KNOW.

  • Jamie Smith
    Jamie Smith Πριν 29 ημέρες +1

    James is a hot mess and he got caught. I can see him being obsessed over straight men. His mother on the other hand needs to mind her own business and take care of her herpes on her upper lip. I see where James gets his sexual obsession from. Just saying his mother needs to go to her local pharmacy and get her herpes taken care of.

      NEO GOT MY BACK Πριν 28 ημέρες

      Okay what do you think about miss tati LYING about almost everything?? And what do you think about Jeffree star's DMS to James Charles?? Accusing him for being a predator and a molester without any evidence and almost causing the poor kid to kill himself??

    • hs m
      hs m Πριν 28 ημέρες

      Are you tati westsnake?

  • Jose alejandro Guzman posto
    Jose alejandro Guzman posto Πριν 29 ημέρες +1

    James charles puto homosexual ojala se muera

    • mariya ito
      mariya ito Πριν 29 ημέρες

      machista come mierda

  • •U-F -HOE•
    •U-F -HOE• Πριν 29 ημέρες +1

    Smh all this drama channels are biased towards Jeffree and tati. This is why the cancel community are toxic AF

  • Lilly Catsonburg
    Lilly Catsonburg Πριν 29 ημέρες

    Why the hell would James be dumb enough to go to Coachella without security or an artists pass 💀💀💀

  • Mark Whaller
    Mark Whaller Πριν 29 ημέρες +1

    Funny how after James makes a video addressing all of the allegations with receipts, all of the comments on the drama videos are “I’m not taking sides in this” instead of before when they were all “James is disgusting”
    Maybe y’all shouldn’t have taken sides in the first place and waited for all of the facts to come out taking sides

  • myk myk
    myk myk Πριν 29 ημέρες +1

    "I'm on no ones side"
    Not the last time i checked your earlier videos.

  • Yosr benmousa
    Yosr benmousa Πριν 29 ημέρες

    This is so much tea spilling , I am almost drowning 😂

  • Briana Leon
    Briana Leon Πριν 29 ημέρες +1

    the thing that’s weird is that first james says that he signed with sugar bear hear for stage coach. but after he says that he was gonna upload the stories after coachella. hm

  • Sabi Sings
    Sabi Sings Πριν 29 ημέρες

    Everyone was so quick to unsubscribe from him without hearing his side, and now that everyone found out it was bs, they subscribe back ? FAKE ASS PEOPLE

  • Jane Doe
    Jane Doe Πριν 29 ημέρες +2

    Now we have an actual Coachella video showing James getting mobbed? I have no sympathy for Tati cause she’s a middle aged woman that tried to destroy a teenage guy saying he was a sexual predator.

  • Brandy Leon
    Brandy Leon Πριν 29 ημέρες

    I’m so over this drama🙄I’m avoiding it because it’s so toxic.

  • Tuan Anh Dang
    Tuan Anh Dang Πριν 29 ημέρες +1

    Still hate cause all of the other dramas especially roasting a 13 year old kid AND drama with gage5

  • Ai ping
    Ai ping Πριν 29 ημέρες +2

    Im unsubcribe u Sebastian, cuz u saying trash thing to James too, u disgusting just like Tati and jeffree, BTW im only hate Tati and never respect her anymore. Period.

  • Jo s
    Jo s Πριν 29 ημέρες +1

    I don’t believe none of them they’re all garbage especially JEFFREE he’s pure waste of a human

  • Jackie Medina
    Jackie Medina Πριν 29 ημέρες

    What I have a problem understanding is that he made an apology video and then comes out with this video and calling everyone a liar...

  • Mariel Ang
    Mariel Ang Πριν 29 ημέρες

    zara larsson lol why tf did she even try to join the drama

  • Myla xox
    Myla xox Πριν 29 ημέρες

    james has gone into way to much drama already (besides this) for me to like him

  • Feirce Majora
    Feirce Majora Πριν 29 ημέρες +1

    People really jumping on the "JAMES CHARLES IS INNOCENT" band wagon, but literally he never talked about the football team controversy, he also still attacked straight men for being straight, HE NEVER apologised for his transphobic remarks ALSO his I'm a virgin excuse doesnt work when you can do SO MUCH and still be a virgin, I have sucked dick and was still a virgin like stop following trends and look into it, also yall do realise its 4 words against his...

  • Sandra
    Sandra Πριν 29 ημέρες +2

    So funny, when James Charles was getting hated there were so many videos but now what... Still don't see anything about Jeffree's apology.. So biased!

  • Heaba Zghoul
    Heaba Zghoul Πριν 29 ημέρες +2

    Pls stop making them voiceovers

  • Prince Marlo
    Prince Marlo Πριν 29 ημέρες

    if it wasnt from tati, james is nothing.

  • jordan
    jordan Πριν 29 ημέρες +1

    Throw the whole community away. Just keep Bretman safe though.

  • Ursula The Sea Bitch
    Ursula The Sea Bitch Πριν 29 ημέρες +1

    Where is Sebastian from??? I ❤️ his accent....

  • Aesthetic Rose
    Aesthetic Rose Πριν 29 ημέρες

    Honestly Tati overreacted period if James texted you before all of this why didn’t she respond? And plus at the fact this chic had the audacity to expose him out of pettiness is honestly sad I also understand she didn’t know how the public would react but sis this shit was so unnecessary

  • Ishita Maheshwari
    Ishita Maheshwari Πριν 29 ημέρες +2

    Time to unsub from all the tea channels

    • Ishita Maheshwari
      Ishita Maheshwari Πριν 29 ημέρες

      MadManMike True and the thing I have noticed they don’t take a second to bash James but when Tati is in bad light they are like please don’t spread hate wtf? Lmfao😂

    • MadManMike
      MadManMike Πριν 29 ημέρες

      Same, they're the REAL fake news.

  • Via Daniels-Fallis
    Via Daniels-Fallis Πριν 29 ημέρες

    to be honest, i’m just mad at tati for perpetuating lies. both jeffree and james have totally de bunked her. i understand her being hurt. but she shouldn’t have lied about his sex life and hurt him like she did. that was too far.

  • Kacey
    Kacey Πριν 29 ημέρες

    To be honest, the only problem i really had with the whole sugarbearhair thing is that he sacrificed his own integrity to promote a product he barely tried for the sake of enjoying coachella.
    Other than that i feel like i find his new video acceptable though i dont feel ready to support him again. Maybe when i finally see a change in his attitude but yeah thats it.
    For Tati and Jeffree, I still trust them but it did waver a bit after all that happened.
    I feel like i need a break from all of them. I dont know how to feel about this anymore tbh.
    This drama is getting sorta tiring so yeah. I need a break

  • TH Lis
    TH Lis Πριν 29 ημέρες

    Truths have sides, POVs. Facts have not.
    So because JC brought receipts, but tati and Jeffree didn't, they needed to back down. Simple as that.

  • saloni
    saloni Πριν 29 ημέρες +1

    I unsub all of them.

  • wildtacos
    wildtacos Πριν μήνα

    i personally believe that if pewdiepie hadn't posted his first video on the drama james wouldnt have been able to fix his career, and i think that james had a lot of help fixing his career.

  • Maria Pyne
    Maria Pyne Πριν μήνα

    I’m acc so bored of this drama

  • hs m
    hs m Πριν μήνα

    What a joke

  • panda weirdo
    panda weirdo Πριν μήνα +3

    Its actually funny because tati said that this whole thing wasn't about the *vitamins* but if it wasn't then why did she " expose " James this year? (James and Sam met last year at tatis bday) & tati lied to her viewers in her Bye Sister video because Sam(the waiter) actually confirmed he was bisexual.

  • Helen Parker
    Helen Parker Πριν μήνα +7

    James: dying in the middle of the crazy fan crowd
    Tati: omg i cant believe you chose your safety over my halo product :ooo

  • LoveOlderWomen
    LoveOlderWomen Πριν μήνα +1

    I actually bashed James Charles and said horrible things to him on my earlier comments when this drama first exploded. The lesson that I've learned here is to never take sides until you've heard both sides. I am not taking sides anymore at this point. I am just gonna quietly watch for the outcome of this drama.

  • suzi uzi
    suzi uzi Πριν μήνα

    I'm glad I'm only subscribed to Edward Avila 🤞

  • gimran kaur
    gimran kaur Πριν μήνα

    james is probably manipulating everyone

  • Summer Valentine
    Summer Valentine Πριν μήνα +1

    Tati was in the wrong let’s not give her the benefit of the doubt

  • #%#%#%#
    #%#%#%# Πριν μήνα +1

    Problem solved: don’t buy either shhhty vitamins

  • Camryn Tanner
    Camryn Tanner Πριν μήνα

    all of the sides can smd from the back at this point like all 3 of yall can hush

  • vocall sama
    vocall sama Πριν μήνα +1

    I think Tati was freakin dramatic

  • Lxxx A
    Lxxx A Πριν μήνα +7

    You should apologize to him because obviously you've chosen sides prior to this video. You said "'no hate" but what's the point of a gossip channel? Delete your entire account and get a life.

  • I Just Tripped
    I Just Tripped Πριν μήνα +2

    but you did with tati before 🤣🤣 smfh

  • ARGH
    ARGH Πριν μήνα +1

    Fuck all of them. They’re just all full of drama and lies. I can’t.

  • periodt
    periodt Πριν μήνα +1

    if you want me to be honest, i have never heard of tati until james' drama.

    JOCELYN • Πριν μήνα

    This is why I LOVE BRETMAN ROCK🥰

  • Andrea Villanueva
    Andrea Villanueva Πριν μήνα +3

    Im very disappointed of you. You started the fake rumor of James Charles Met Gala expulsion and you know it. Check in the Channel Dalas Review if you don't believe me

    • Andrea Villanueva
      Andrea Villanueva Πριν 29 ημέρες

      @rurulala that didn't happened but he share a edited foto in her Twitter or Instagram i don't remember

    • rurulala
      rurulala Πριν μήνα

      What's this about met gala expulsion?

  • grapeturd
    grapeturd Πριν μήνα +1

    I never followed James Charles or Tati Westbrook and at the moment I'm choosing to stay neutral because although James has brought up proof and tati has not, I don't really get why this has blown up the way it has. It seems to me that Tati got mad at James for a sponsorship that he did and then all of a sudden she brings up his obsession with straight guys and he's a forcing them to go gay, w.e. Like she was okay before then all of a sudden he does a sponsorship and all of a sudden she decides I'm going to expose James Charles for who he really is. Why is the beauty community so dramatic?

  • K. C.
    K. C. Πριν μήνα

    Well James charles career IS based on a lie. And I trust Tati. James has shown time and time again who he really is.

  • gucci coochie juicy tropicana
    gucci coochie juicy tropicana Πριν μήνα +2

    The people defending Jeffree and Tati sayin he had matured are sheeps. Like bruh. He defamed and dragged James thru hell along with Tati to crawl their way up, sent threats, gave people who hated James the opportunity to jump on the bandwagon and sent even more cruel messages directing at James, a grown ass 33 year old man bullying a 16 year old, made false allegations that could follow James for life . And now he pulled the "im a better person, feel bad for me card" and yall kissing his ugly ass? You all are disgusting fools.

  • Hey Misses
    Hey Misses Πριν μήνα +3

    Yea it’s CLEAR you were on sides! You don’t like James and prefer Tati and Jeffree. Now you want to pretend you’re on “no sides”. BULL SHIT!

  • Arya Dorringdü
    Arya Dorringdü Πριν μήνα

    I love how you’ve started talking in your videos instead of using text xoxo

  • FayBellZo
    FayBellZo Πριν μήνα +1

    So basically everyone else’s screenshots are faked but yours are legit? Ok. What about how you misbehaved in front of her family? What about that snapchat convo where is the proof on that? James please, you could have shown growth and personality if you had not posted this I would have considered you the better person.. but now? Nah, you are the exactly the obnoxious kid all of your old friends say you are, AND THEY STILL SHOW LOVE. Bye sister.

    • rurulala
      rurulala Πριν 29 ημέρες +1

      @FayBellZo "for once he's being a bigger person" lmao that's a load of bullshit and I feel sorry that you're so easily manipulated 😂 You don't accuse someone of being a sexual predator and then suddenly back out and say "I'm done doing this uwu". That was a very serious accusation that could land someone in jail. If Jeffree decided to back out it heavily implies that 1. He doesn't have any proof or 2. He's protecting a SUPPOSED sexual predator, which is NOT ok if all his claims about James being a predator are true. It's not him suddenly being a "bigger person" he's just doing damage control lmao

    • FayBellZo
      FayBellZo Πριν μήνα

      My PUSSY STANKS bad jeffree can easily debunk but he’s being the bigger person. I was not talking about Gage or the waiter, I was talking about the tati texts.. obviously. I was just saying other people had screenshots as well. Plus Nate’s brother, Nate and Jeffree hold the screenshots to that snap convo. Jeffree could be a real dog and expose those if he wanted to. But finally for once he is being the bigger person

    • FayBellZo
      FayBellZo Πριν μήνα

      My PUSSY STANKS bad yeh but Jeffree also said there was something leading up to those texts, which James said its not true but did he prove that?

    • My PUSSY STANKS bad
      My PUSSY STANKS bad Πριν μήνα

      @FayBellZo And all Gage, the waiter and James receipts match up so what is even your point? Even Jeffree came forward and acknowledged he sent James those texts. So why exactly would James fake receipts knowing they can easily be debunked? His receipts aren't fake and he actually came with facts to back up his claims!periodt! You can't speak on something and not have any facts to back it up otherwise it's just an accusation with no real weight. Let's be real that's why both Tati and Jeffree backed off and want to be "above the drama" all of a sudden beacuse they don't have any receipts to show lol. Sit down little girl and be quiet next time.

    • FayBellZo
      FayBellZo Πριν μήνα

      Also Tati told in her video that James would not give her or her husband space and that he was demanding contact. His screenshots show that he did not leave her alone he did not give her any space. Cuz guess what? James is used to getting what he wants when he wants it. And yall applaud this kid for that? Smfh

  • ugly poop doodle bob
    ugly poop doodle bob Πριν μήνα +1

    sebastian a week ago: fuck james hes a predator
    sebastian now: i am an NOONES side

  • Dominic
    Dominic Πριν μήνα

    I'm still subbed to Tati and I was never subbed to James, but people are reaching SOOOO far to discredit James' new video...

  • SkinnyThicc Legend
    SkinnyThicc Legend Πριν μήνα +3

    Hey sebastian honey. You have apologize... you cant just trash james and than just say "i believe no one at this point"

  • Edgar Aguirre
    Edgar Aguirre Πριν μήνα

    sugarbairhair had me dying

  • GM K
    GM K Πριν μήνα +1

    i dont get it, i really believe tati is more genuine as a person, but james gave response to nearly every accusation she did, and all of the accusations are so serious which are made with emotions and zero proofs whatsoever, and people yet still are on tatis side because they think shes a better person overall.. stop blaming everything on james
    plus i dont see a single reason why anyone can be on sides of jeffree seriously in this point

  • Savannah Ray
    Savannah Ray Πριν μήνα +3

    Also the Im a celebrity thing was not a misunderstanding Tati also takes part in that joke

  • cendoria a a
    cendoria a a Πριν μήνα

    I’m rewatching this and I got a vitamin ad saying “no tea no spill” by vegamour

  • hxlxnska
    hxlxnska Πριν μήνα

    why TF do i keep clicking on these fucking videos

  • Pocahontas Bitch
    Pocahontas Bitch Πριν μήνα

    I believe Tati spoke on things that she knew little to nothing about. She had the audacity to bring James mother into the drama and claim she is a bad parent when she has never had to raise a child in her damn life. Then Jeffree going off and bringing his little brother into it when the tweet had 0 to do with him. I know for a fact both Jeffree and Tati would be pissed had James done that to them.

  • Farras Danindira
    Farras Danindira Πριν μήνα

    I just think things should've handled in private. So there are no misunderstanding

  • Savannah Ray
    Savannah Ray Πριν μήνα +9

    Lmao all of this drama you’ve been with Tati but now that James proved Tati wrong you wanna be on no ones side? Lmao trash

  • RoseMaryyy Martinez
    RoseMaryyy Martinez Πριν μήνα +2

    Honestly it’s disgusting how Tati talks about his mom like your a 36 year old women and she a little bit older and she’s a mom of 2 boys yeah she gonna protect her son in whatever drama he gets in , Tati only has a step son and that isn’t the same when you’ve been more connective like James his brother and his mom .